In my experience, the heart knows how to respond to each situation. I think it takes practice to be able to respond and hold both sides. It doesn't mean there isn't action-- just action arsing naturally from the causes and conditions of the moment. True compassion can take may forms. Sometimes it can look like setting firm boundaries and cutting off the confusion (ignorance).
It took me a minute to see how this seems to be a "cautionary tale." For me, I think all the teachings seem to change in their implications and meaning-- as I have continued to explore. Some seem to be more relevant at times than others. Growing up I tended to be anti-religious and scientific, so it took me a while to see the deeper parts of the tradition and how I can hold both (science and religion). I appreciate your reflection on this as well! I too, want to see the tradition carried forward and change.
Thanks for the feedback and Metta!