I agree with Melissa, I am not by any means madly in love with G & we have our fair share of problems but in a funny way I know that I want to be with him for the rest of my life. It's safe & it's comfortable. I don't want to start all over again with someone new. I may be missing out on the excitement of being totally in love but I am happy enough like this. I respect him & enjoy his company & he gives me a lot of help work-wise.
Aww gorgeous kitty, I'm such a sucker for cats as you may know by now lol...
Great purple hair! U look great! No, you don't have to turn into one of "those girls" just because you look good & people are noticing it. Most guys would prefer that you have a proper brain & lots of personality etc as well as looking good. So don't lose yourself, you don't need to blend in. You'll always be more interesting & therefore attractive by staying true to yourself! It's probably just cos you're not used to the attention that you are finding it so scary, but you will get used to it - just enjoy it!
Ooooh you've changed your theme, it's lovely! Your worm charming day out sounds fun! We were going to go to the summer garden fete at Arley Hall at the weekend but didn't have time :( I love things like that! PS - We must live quite close as I live in Cheshire too!
Nope, not stupid at all. I think sometimes we get a feeling inside that we just need to do something & most of us probably brush it aside & never do it! Go for it. Start saving!
Awww poor Henrietta! She's gorgeous! I treat all my cats like babies as well lol. Animals can be very sensitive to changes & ur right they do suffer with depression as well as us! One of my cats got very stressed out when we moved to England & developed a variety of "psychosomatic" symptoms because he was so depressed. It was horrible to see the change in him. It just took time & lots of love but he improved! Would you consider getting Henrietta a new playmate?
Hi - I'm exactly the same. It's like I'm a completely different person when I'm single - happier, more fun, I make an effort to go out with friends etc... Every relationship I've been in I seem to change as soon as it gets "serious" & become very withdrawn. Makes you wonder why we bother with these men eh?!
Wow, that's great that you have this attitude - you're a very strong person Livi! Onwards & upwards :)
Happy June! It's so good you have a plan & goals to work towards, I think I may have to copy your idea ;)
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