We are turning off the lights. And my kids are turning off the ceiling fans :-(. My daughter even unplugs her keyboard after practice so it doesn't drink the juice when she's away from it.

Nancy, Thanks for the follow up suggestions. I'll try looking closer at the bedroom sectors for him.
Another note on the candles- As I think back to earlier in our marriage (pre-kids) we would have candles at dinner frequently. One particular night there weren't any lit and I still recall my husband asking for some to be lit, because they helped him relax. It was a middle-of-the-week dinner at home, nothing special, but he knew the effect on himself of the candle light. Now I know why.

Can you suggest a way for me to find someone in my geography who could come to the house and help me go deeper with feng shui?