Well, from what you said above sex is nothing to you really. So do you think it will become something to you if you get married? Or will you just focus on your mate's personality and the way they carry themselves?
So IF you get married, will your views on sex change? Just curious
Why would she text you this when you already told her what you're about? Did she think that you would beg her to stay? Maybe she just wanted to test you to see where your heart was. The Teacher texting you this probably means that she's not gone yet. If she was, I would think she wouldn't have contacted you at all.
Not every man or woman cheats. He calls me everyday, he goes to work everyday, he coaches little league football, we spend time with each other all the time why would I doubt him? And if he was why wouldn't he try to have sex with me since we've been dating for two years? I refuse to believe every man is a dog.
Geesh. You guys are so trigger touchy. I reason why I said why doesn't he just marry one is because it SEEMS that he wants to do "good" by women so why doesn't he just do it. Sure, he may fall back into old habits but isn't that life. I think people make things more difficult than they really are. My boyfriend was an actively sexual man when I met him but now he's not. I know every man will not be like this but isn't worth a shot, instead of being out here risking your life everyday. But once again I'm probably being naive. LOL!!!!
I couldn't leave this alone sorry. PLEASE DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DO NOT!!!!!! She's already not strong enough, it seems, to handle NYC, so she will probably not be strong enough to handle the rejection that is to come. Virgins see men like you as a challenge. "Oh, I can probably change him" is what I have heard alot. Instead of running, not walking, away from you some will try to take you on. Three things will come from this and I have seen all: she will turn into a hoe because she longs for your attention, she'll feel very bad about herself and lose more weight and look at herself differently, or she will get overly motivated and never have time for anything but work (which is not healthy). So please do not. Sorry this was so long.
I really don't have much to say because you are going to do what you want if the "opportunity" arises, which is your god given right but I hope that if she comes to you again you actually talk to her and tell her again that your only interested in sex. If she puts herself in a sexual situation after you talk and something happens, and I hate to say this, it will be all on her but at least make sure she actually HEARS what you are saying. I just don't understand why you won't marry a virgin, who cooks, cleans, will help you get to where you want to go and you help her as well and be someone that you can spend a lifetime training how to sex you the way you want. __
Umm, I go to church but I wouldn't consider myself "church folk." I'm not putting blame only on the woman but who has to carry the baby...who has to go through all the changes. Women just need to stop and think before they engage. A man needs I woman's consent first before having sex with her, right? (except in rape cases, but that's another story). The father should step up but how many times does that happen with babies out of wedlock sometimes even marriage. I'm just saying as women we have to have our own selves together, just in case.
I'll date again but all of that will have to be put on hold until I raise my children. My mom dedicated her life to us and I know it's probably strange to you but I would probably do the same. That's why I believe you go through the courting phrase with no sex so you won't be distracted in finding the right one. Does it always work, maybe not, but at the end of the day at least you can say you tried and don't have to have the feeling of being used. I would like for my husband to be a virgin but that's probably not going to happen. If he was then we could spend the rest of our lives exploring the world of sex and love. LOL!!
CONT One more thing (I know this is long) you were talking about why you don't want to have children, well my best friend is 24 and has never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone before. Her father gave her a promise ring and she wears it to this day. Just because you experience girls "giving it away" everyday doesn't mean that their all like that. She honors her parents by waiting for "everything" to share with one person. You could have a daughter just like that. It all depends on how you raise them.
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