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16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - What about the men? · 0 replies · +1 points
Today in economy class, my professor was giving a speech about monopoly and how diamonds have a huge affect on love. You know when seeing a commercial about diamonds it’s usually the soul mate giving it to the other portraying how they feel about that certain person. Well in that class he was telling us and showing us clips of how the media basically says the best gift showing love is giving a diamond. So our professor told us that he asked his wife what she wanted for their twenty fifth anniversary. It happens to be a diamond ring, so he told her does she want a perfect diamond or a unique diamond. The difference is that a perfect diamond is shaped up and is not rare and unique diamond meaning only you have that certain kind and it cost thousands of dollars more. She didn’t know so she picks the perfect diamond. He told her the difference and she picks the unique diamond. So he asked the boys in the class, if the media portrayed copper as big as they do diamonds and diamonds was falling under the radar, what would we choose to buy? About all of us said copper and one answered copper because “monkey see, monkey do, and you would be stupid not to chase after what monkey like”. Showing that whatever the media or society is boasting about. You will see a huge drift in how we human beings will start to focus more on things like that. Myself is a victim of doing this as well. I want all the fancy things that I see on TV and you can’t blame me for not wanting them. They are kind of establishing your social norm in society. Showing how long your money is rappers would say.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Women · 0 replies · +1 points
Beauty should be based on what’s on the inside not how good someone looks. Some women are unbelievably beautiful but their dumb as shit. Who wants to introduce that type of woman to their family?! NO ONE! Maybe if there wasn’t so much pressure on girls to look a certain way they wouldn’t develop the attitudes they have towards looking good. The way girls think and act is because they want men to notice them. So they dress in showy outfits, tan all the time, go to the gym 24/7, and get implants. All this is ok if you do it in moderation minus the implants. This is another thing that helps women get better bodies. They see celebrities getting implants or having certain body parts that are better than theirs. So they pay crazy amounts of money to have the “best” body around. Although I don’t think many women think of the complications that come along with surgery. There is always a story in the media of women who got plastic surgery and it came out wrong; leaving their body with more imperfections than they had before.
In conclusion, women need to find beauty in themselves to be comfortable in their own body. I don’t think anyone should have influence over what women believe in. Inner beauty and comfort ability in oneself is such an important aspect that every women should have. The way women dress or look shouldn’t have an influence on the type of person they become. Men find it more attractive when women have a great personality and a great sense of humor. Making them more beautiful than they think they are.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Prom or No Prom: Just... · 0 replies · +1 points
The American Civil Liberties Union gave the school enough time to change the rules about same-sex couples. Instead the punished the entire school and cancelled the prom. This isn’t fair for the other students who didn’t participate in wanting to take a partner of the same sex; basically, the majority of the school. I feel horrible because students are going to be mad at her when I don’t believe she did anything wrong. I think they should’ve just changed the rules and said she can bring a girl date. When I was in high school girls brought girl dates and nobody made a fuss about it. Everyone was worried about dancing and taking pictures the whole night. What confuses me so much is that gay marriages are accepted in society today but schools still have a problem with this.
This is also going to bring bad media to the school and they can’t point fingers at anyone because this was their decision. So, any negative media that comes from this is in their hands to resolve. She should’ve just showed up to the prom with another girl what would have they done then? Make her go home? Then the school has the nerve to say, “private citizens will hold an event for juniors and seniors.” What kind of shit is that? I hope the students understand she was just standing up for what she believed was right. The same thing anyone else would do if they were put into that situation.
At the end of this, I totally believe this whole situation could’ve been avoided. But instead of home of the free, it’s more like inaccuracy of freedom. I feel as though the girl could have gone to prom with anyone. What the hell it’s her moments so let the young lady shine. I wonder if not telling the school and just showing up. She would’ve been safe unless they cancel the prom when they find out lol.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - I Reckon She Can Hit · 0 replies · +1 points
With that said and with knowing the kids and how immature they can be towards her on the field. She must ignore the comments and be that strong women she has been and is today. People think that it’s not a big deal being a women high school football coach, believe me it is. With I being a football player and currently on Penn State football team, I know what it’s like and what is said towards ladies when we are just chit chatting. Don’t take this wrong ladies but it’s just boys being boys. The hardest part has yet to come for her. Like getting the players and parents to buy in what she is willing to bring to the program.
When I was home my uncle who coaches for another D.C high school, didn’t take the gutsy move from Coolidge serious. Not only him, basically 75% thought negative of it. Although he never doubted her of winning he was just concern about her process with going through this. He knows how frustrating getting teenage boys to respect you can be. I was asked the other day if I was coach at any level from high school and college would I accept her as a person. Of course I said yes, but her as my coach just couldn’t be. Why, I don’t even know or have an accuse to tell you. When passing out questionnaire about the situation to my teammates, we were asked would we ever want to have a female as a head coach or position coach. Majority was answered no and the ones they said yes had to answer why and it was sexist comments.
I wish her the best and I hope she change not only my mind but the world mind that ladies can coach as well.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Why Is This Racist? R... · 0 replies · +1 points
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Men and Women. Hmm...... · 0 replies · +1 points
To the men who buy the sex dolls, I think that’s ridiculous that you have to scoop that low just to get a nut off. Not only is it disgusting, but have you ever heard this phrase “that there’s that perfect someone for every person”. That’s why it’s a certain logic to that phrase. Now if the men are scooping this low to buy this doll, what’s next, having to molest a real person just for your own satisfaction? That’s the question I have for them. Whether they agree with my statement or not, that’s how I see it. And you couldn’t change my mind about that unless you have an absolute reason for the sex doll.
Ladies you know your doll is coming as well. That’s just how this world operates. Now if u asks me would I feel the same way about the doll if it was a man for lady? To be straight forward no, because it’s the same as having a vibrator for themselves or a dildo; just with a puppet as man with the dildo attached. It’s just like gays; it seems people are calmer with lesbians than gay men. That’s this so called society we live in today.
Would I ever get a sex doll? No, because that’s stupid and I don’t want to brag but I can pretty much get the real deal anytime!
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Racism Looks Pretty Mi... · 0 replies · +1 points
I have noticed that many European countries contain many far-right political parties which have been known to dehumanize as well as teach a sense of fear of black and other ethnic or multi-cultured immigrants which when mixed with the excitement, and potential explosive environment of a European soccer game, can lead to such racist acts. Acts carried out by other coaches and players to me are unacceptable and so the fact that they let the then French coach Luis Aragones continue to coach and only have fined him $5,000 for his racial slurs tells me that there is not enough control over the organized soccer league and cruel behavior is enabled. Hateful actions done on the field as well as in the stands are completely overlooked and that is wrong. Europe’s national soccer federation has taken no responsibility. Apparently FIFA has left rules regarding behavior of fans and players up to the decisions of the individual country; however because of the upcoming World Cup to be carried out, FIFA’s president has made rules that will penalize teams whose players, fans, and whoever that engages in inappropriate racial behavior. While those are positive steps being taken to help mitigate racial conduct, I do not appreciate it to the fullest because it was only brought on because the World Cup is so heavily broadcasted internationally. I found this article interesting because not only is it dealing with the sport of soccer but a more deeply rooted issue of racial prejudices that have stemmed from immigration flows and the introduction of blacks and other races into a pool of scared, white Europeans. Resolutions are probably near on the horizon but like most social issues, violence, deaths, and hurt will undoubtedly take place before
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Animals vs. Humans vs.... · 0 replies · +1 points
In today’s society, American’s abuse the power to get help from others. Americans sign up for welfare when they really don’t need it and cheat the system. This is making it harder for people to get help when they really need financial support. Although, I don’t feel they should be called “animals,” some are ashamed to even ask for help. I feel it’s wrong when families take advantage of the welfare system to get money from them when they don’t have jobs. Most people will get on welfare because their lazy and don’t want to take care of their family. When you’re struggling with money problems you shouldn’t have large families because it makes things harder on you. In today’s society now a lot of people are going through economic problems and are reaching out for help.
It’s crazy that people will look down on others when their in need. Since he’s a governor he probably came from money so he wouldn’t understand the circumstances people go through. Instead of talking down on the problem he should be finding ways to help reduce the problem. Also, maybe he’ll see that their not all “drug addicts” and need to get tested before they can obtain welfare.
I truly believe though you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover because there are people today who have a lot of money but don’t flaunt it. Governor Bauer was way out of line to come at individuals the way he did, with such disrespect. He’s supposed to representing our country and he talking down on the individuals that live in it. He doesn’t know the current situations those people are going through now. Maybe both parents lost their jobs or something worse happened. He should bite his tongue because karma is a bitch and when something happens to him (god forbid) it’s going to be one of those “animals” that helps him!!
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - I Guess It Pays to Lea... · 0 replies · +1 points
I just wish that even in air planes we can feel as safe as possible when not even on ground. But hey its life, it’s supposed to be up and downs. And to the Jews, Iraqi’s, etc I apologize to the way most of act when we see you guys on air planes. I know the United States is home of the free and land of the brave, but it’s really not on planes sorry!
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - I Guess It Pays to Lea... · 0 replies · +1 points