en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/568783 Comments by seatmon http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-8/#IDComment24273438 thank you so much for your blogs. I see where we have gone wrong in all these 8 areas! My husband and I had been to the counselors, read marriage books,etc. Yet we both became so bittered and hardened due to just daily letting these 8 things set in. And I the "spiritual" one who always wants to make a change, or try harder, was so bittered to even think of doing one more thing to please or show love to my husband. I am ashamed. But thank God for his grace, he let us get so broken, so like you said we had a good marriage, the best we could build. Now we are letting God build, and I am so excited abou that! Your story really helps and your honesty! God Bless. Mon, 15 Jun 2009 03:49:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-8/#IDComment24273438