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434 weeks ago @ nandoism.com - How To Tell If Your Ma... · 0 replies · +1 points

As a follow up to my previous comment, I recently had a friend call saying that he wanted to do some research and as a straight man (as he knows he is,) he wanted to go check out some gay bars to figure out if he would be a fit as a bartender in one.
I have obviously volunteered but I keep thinking, why does a man try to circumvent the obvious with these low-down excuses?

My resolve is that we live in the 21st century and nowadays, the boundaries that have defined sexuality in the past have been blurred especially by the younger generation. Gone are the days when the gay scene was just for the gays and lesbians, today, I am not even sure which joints are or for that matter, if there are still any traditionally "gay" bars or clubs.

My one advice to women is that if you suspect your man is gay just enjoy the diversity because I know it could only be a hot experience.

434 weeks ago @ nandoism.com - How To Tell If Your Ma... · 0 replies · +1 points

Nando, I must commend you on the article and it was hilarious as usual. I have always tried to find the right mix of ingredients that characterizes a man as gay but lately I have just given up as I have been accused on several occasions of wanting to label every man as that.

It is also increasingly difficult to really tell nowadays, and I have come to the conclusion that a man who exhibits gay tendencies should be left alone and not cohersed into thinking that he is. As many of us know in the community, we choose to walk out of the darkness and the comfort of our closets only when the time is right. I also believe if he continues to give his woman good loving why rock the boat with worries of his sexuality.
At the end of the day, even though I feel tempted to pursue men who harness these tendencies, it always ends in trepidation, as I feel it would be too much grief and work to try to conquer the task at hand. I guess am just tired of trying to comprehend the nature of a man who chooses to play both sides of the coin.