thank you i hope more people start to see so that she has no choice but to seek the help she needs i'm not trying to be mean. i love her and josh and lindsey and we are all hurting. but taking advantage of this situation and her family is just wrong she's hurting a lot of people.

thank you passionatemom we as melissa's hurt for her and we love all three of them but this is gotten out of control and its taking a toll on the whole family and we are a large family so that should tell people something we can't and won't take them in. i did think about it but i have my own family to think of. and work hard to support. its nice to that others understand also.

it sound like you know her as well as we do. i love her and she needs help. she has money for coffee etc. she did the family she was staying very wrong and cost her a large amount of money. and repiars to her house. who's going to pay for that. are the problem solvers going to help her to.

very true

very true the family agrees

i am a famialy member of the baums and they both need help. she is the reason they were locked out of the house after being asked numerous time to find somewhere else to live after they were taken in out of the kindness of this persons heart. and was threatened daily by josh and his mother would do nothing but lay in bed and yell at him josh and his mother both did nothing but destroy the house broke out a window. the family member they were with had a lock put on her bedroom door to feel safe enough to sleep at night and go to other families homes to avoid them. melissa is using this situation for a pity party when she had a job waiting for and they offered her part time and to work around any hrs she need she didn't have to quite she chose to. this family has bent over backwards to help her and josh but she will not take any help or takes advantage.