I've had and have lots of friendships with women that have been completely platonic. That's not to say that maybe my first thought when I met them was to notice their attractiveness. I think that about a lot of things that are probably not good for me. That doesn't mean that I'm going to pursue them. God's given me free will and part of that is to choose NOT to sin. I made a commitment to my wife so it doesn't matter how hot I think a person is, I'm not going there. I can't control my thoughts but I can control my actions through His guidance. That being said, I can understand a church not wanting to have to deal with unnecessary talk and innuendo. Especially "innuendo." Get it? I'm an idiot, sorry. I like what Anne said about the way they do things at CP. Glad to have you back Los, you were missed!