Next year Slaus....I'm coming for that Comic/Gaming Blog title!! Now that I got a taste of being nominated, I'm coming to overtake the whole category next year.
When I first started blogging, I thought it would be cool to exchange links with other people that I knew who blogged too...but in retrospect, I see that wasn't the smartest thing to do...especially when I started to get more personal on here. You're right, we're all human, and everyone gets hurt...but not showing people what exactly does hurt you gives you an advantage like you have less weaknesses than most, even when thats far from the truth. I've come to find out that if people see that they can't hurt you as easily, then they give up on that front and move onto something else. Maybe thats where all of this is coming from...
Please believe though, that I'm definitely trying to stay positive amidst the adversity! Thanks!
Thanks for the playlist love Keys!! Some things about myself I'm definitely going to change and am in the process of changing. Some people that I know and used to surround myself with seemed to only ask trivial and surface questions not because they actually cared, but because they were nosy and just wanted to know everything that I was doing and up to. Its easy to say that you have this "I just don't care" attitude, and superficially, its easy to maintain, but it does eat away at you...and certain things that you should let roll off of your back or roll with the punches with does hurt and sting. Maybe I just need tougher armor...
Yeah, I totally feel you on everything you've said here. I try to have a 'I don't care what people think about me' attitude, but sometimes it gets hard and it does start to take its toll on me. More often than not, I just keep calm, because its easier for me to maintain doing that. I don't like it when my actions, personality, or motives are misunderstood...because I feel as if actions speak louder than words.
Thanks CoogieCru for reading even if you don't comment. I'm so sorry to hear about everything that happened to you in 2010, but I'm glad that you're definitely putting it behind you because thats the best way to move on. I'm just putting all of the negativity behind me (as well as the negative people) and cleansing everything and starting anew. Have a great new year and I hope and pray that things go nowhere but upward for you.
Hey thanks for stopping by Carmen! Yeah, I've been putting everyone ahead of me in my own life, and that doesn't sound right at all...and from this point forward, I'm putting more of a priority on myself. I was thinking about going down a list of all of my disappointments from the last year, but then I thought, why bother...because all of that's behind me, and I'm willing to step out of the shadows of the past and into the light of the present and future. And if others that I choose to surround myself with aren't willing to deal with it, then they too can escort themselves back into those shadows.
And don't worry...I'm sticking with it...its not a resolution, but a life change.
Hey Shug!! How've you been?? And a happy new year to you too!
That Hypenitis is real....get your immune system up!! Its real out here. Happy new year to you B. Good.
At the time, I was pissed off...and when I heard the news, I guess it sort of brought me back....but I'm well past that point now. Like I said, I gave her the 'wish you well' speech and pretty much kept it moving. And for a second, I slipped, and almost wished bad things happened for her because of what she put me through, but I'm a different and better person now, and don't wish any ill will on anyone...neither him nor her. Looking back, I should've just left everything when I saw that she was looking at different 'couples compatibility horoscopes' that involved her zodiac sign, and not mine but someone else's. The way I look at it, they deserve each other and whatever else that entails.
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