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14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - 5 Ways to Learn to Trust · 0 replies · +1 points

Hi Ray,
Nice hearing from you.
Most of this stuff is just about getting up in the morning and starting. You get to stop when you die.
I remember clients getting quite angry about having to continue to "do it."
I just remember how little I enjoy what happens when I stop paying attention!
Warmly, W

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - 5 Ways to Learn to Trust · 0 replies · +1 points

Hey amigo,
Nice hearing from you! Missing being in Costa Rica... a lot!
Imagining you mean the captions under the photos - will change that!
Trusting you are well, and enjoying newly married life!
Warmly, W

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - Play Dumb and Hold You... · 0 replies · +1 points

Hey William,
Well, that's good news! Trusting you'll "get out of Dodge" at precisely the right moment, and take this time to appreciate the goodbyes. They're precious!

Wayne

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - Passionate Engaging · 0 replies · +1 points

Hi Ryan,
Most people expect intimacy to "just happen" - and are surprised to discover that it takes effort, focus, and persistence, esp. at those moments when there is conflict.
Glad you found the article helpful!
Wayne

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - The Top 5 Ways to Get ... · 0 replies · +1 points

Thanks, Shane. No point doing otherwise!

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - The Zen of Reflections... · 0 replies · +1 points

I remember talking with her at your party some moons ago! I'll check the site.
Still not sure what we're doing, but enjoying the not knowing.
Nice to hear from you - assuming you are well and life is swimming along.
Let's do coffee sometime
Love n hugs, w

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - How to Be the Chairman... · 0 replies · +1 points

hey Danette - I'm enjoying reading YOUR blog.
seems to me that when I'm present and breathing, boredom never occurs.
and issues with holidays seems to be about reality not matching expectations - once one is willing to accept what is, that one goes away too!
huge rainbow over the lake in front of our casita. reality is grand, and so is hearing from you!

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - What a 10 Kilometer Hi... · 0 replies · +1 points

Looking forward to meeting you and working with you. Hot springs are a bit away from here, but reachable!
Warmly, W

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - Disillusionment · 0 replies · +1 points

Your comment reminded me of sending people (and myself... and Darbella) off to The Haven for personal development training. They come home and experience what you are describing, and I'd remind them that they, not their loved ones, signed on for the new learning.
I suggest to my clients that this kind of work often requires a change of friends / spouses, etc., as the "contract has changed."
I'll add your idea to my list of articles to write - thanks for the suggestion!

14 years ago @ The Pathless Path - Theft of Values · 0 replies · +1 points

Hi Cassandra,
I guess it's all about integrity, one of my favourite words. It's easy to get into a discussion re. problems in the world (I certainly still get caught in this) - but it's like when the Buddha was asked questions about god or reincarnation. He'd refuse to talk about it, as talking about issues solves nothing.
He'd simply wonder about the person's actual practice.
So, I guess the best we can do is to act from our centre. Back when Dar was teaching, she spearheaded anti-bullying stuff at her school (part of her job was guidance) and also is deeply into "Save the Children" so she spearheaded that too.
She acted from her values, and didn't worry about those who didn't get it.
I guess part of this is learning to act proactively, and let go of thinking there is conflict - there isn't so long as I refuse to dance to that tune.
Warmly, Wayne

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