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These are the real death panels. don't think it can't happen here
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Essentially, narcissists think they are the center of the world. Other people exist only to serve them.
Stephen Farrell wrote a long blog entry about his experience. http://atwar.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/09/09/the-rep...
On the surface, it seems a factual account. But the signs of narcissistic personality disorder are there. He defies the warning because he has an important mission to show the world how the Nato Forces are badly behaved. He speaks fondly of his sidekick Munadi, as the Lone Ranger might speak of Tonto (which is, coincidentally, Spanish for fool). But the story is really all about him and his importance. Having defied the advice given him, he nevertheless expects to be rescued, an expectation, unfortunately based in reality. But the real narcissism reveals itself in his behavior during the raid. He is completely unable to imagine the world as his rescuers see it. By that I mean, it is night when he is rescued. He is accompanied by a man who is dressed in a robe. It seems never to have occurred to Farrell how difficult it might be for his rescuers to know which men in robes are shooting at them and which one ( and there was only one) is friendly. Despite having hung out with soldiers and having been captured by terrorists before when he was in Iraq, he seems unable to understand the fog of war. By his own account, the Taliban had left the room where he was being held captive when he decided to leave the room also and run out into the middle of a firefight taking place at night, thinking all he had to do was announce who he was and everything would be all right. That kind of thought moves beyond mere arrogance into narcissistic personality disorder. Unfortunately, it was his loyal sidekick who was killed by his stupidity. He seemed incapable of understanding that his rescuers were being shot at by men in robes. He seemed incapable of understanding that they might not be able to hear him. He seemed incapable of understanding that they might not know him in the dark.
I hope and pray that Stephen Farrell is suffering from grief, remorse and depression and guilt right now. Those feelings are not always bad. Narcissists suffer grief only when they don't get what they want. But even that self centered grief may lead, eventually, to some personal growth, some realization that they are not the center of the world, that they are not on some higher plane than all the lowly plebes. The truth is, that it may very well be that Stephen Farrell lead Munadi to his death.
And perhaps someday Farrell will seek out the family of John Harrison, the British paratrooper who died In the rescue, and apologize to his family and thank them for having produced a son who was a strong, moral and honorable man with a whole lot more mettle than Stephen Farrell could ever hope to have.
4 weeks ago @ Macleans.ca - The truth is out there... · 0 replies · +3 points
AS I once said to my struggling to learn music son, I don't have to know how to play the violin to know if you are playing in tune and on time. I do not have to be a scientist to know if you are dealing accurately and fairly with the basic data. When so called scientists lie to the public about the data, there is serious cause for concern.
10 weeks ago @ Amy Alkon on MND - At Once Undermannered ... · 0 replies · +1 points
At the same time we need to talk about what is reasonable risk. If you want to know really why so many children are obese, go look at any elementary, middle or high school ten minutes before school starts. There is a traffic jam of parents who won't let their children ride the school bus or walk to school (which I, like the author, started doing when I was about 7). It seems to me that the technology we have today can substantially reduce the worry without turning the child into a prisoner of his parents paranoia. If you are really, really worried, put a GPS locator in his backpack. The number of child kidnappings is no higher than it ever was, we just hear about them more. I would be much more worried about traffic accidents than kidnapping, if I had a school age child these days.
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