Shame on you Madmama and PassionateMom - To the family member: Pretend you didn't know what you were getting yourself into all along if you must - but simply it was a cold hearted move!! Who are you going to use to pay your bills this time? Better log into plentyoffish and get started looking!

To Melissa Baum: Things will look up. Focus on righting the troubles in yours and Josh's lives and working towards a more stable tomorrow! If you can get to a point where you can depend on you - then you never have to be worried about being let down by others!! Keep your chin up!!