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16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Women · 0 replies · +1 points
It isn’t a secret that women, especially teenage girls, face the most pressure to conform to society’s standards. From eating disorders, skin treatments, make-up clothes, we try so hard to fit the qualities that we see as perfect. And what does this do other than cost thousands of dollars and shatter self confidence. We live in a society where plastic surgery can fix anything someone doesn’t like about their body. Does anyone not see a problem with this? Women need to learn that they are perfect the way they are. We should worry about feeling good in our own bodies rather than straining ourselves to impress others. The models and actresses we view as the ideal women are often represented in misleading light. Cosmopolitan and other fashion magazines frame the “perfect” woman on the front cover. We need to understand that these “perfect” women are airbrushed until there isn’t a single imperfection on their face or body. And these women that we view as perfect only make up about one percent of the world’s population.
Beauty certainly does come in all shapes and sizes. Our society and Hollywood has gotten better over the years at representing a wider range of women. From Ugly Betty to Hairspray women who aren’t blonde-haired stick-figures are beginning to show up in our media.
Another problem with society is that women are always over sexualized. Just look at the latest season of Dancing with the Stars. Pamela Anderson represents the expression “less is more.” This is a problem because women shouldn’t be expected to show their “goodies” in order to be happy or successful. A lot of times the people we idol such as the Pussycat Dolls teach us to be sexy. Sexy is good at times, but that isn’t what a woman is. She shouldn’t have to dance around on poles and chairs with no clothes on to get a man’s attention.
A new trend is women beginning to invade the science and math careers. Intelligence is becoming a valued trait by women. It is important that women be appreciated for more than just their physical appearance. I really enjoyed the play that was performed the other day in class because it told the story on the other side of the spectrum. Things that men like in women are not always a woman’s favorite part of herself. With that said, women do need to love themselves before impressing society.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Women · 0 replies · +1 points
It isn’t a secret that women, especially teenage girls, face the most pressure to conform to society’s standards. From eating disorders, skin treatments, make-up clothes, we try so hard to fit the qualities that we see as perfect. And what does this do other than cost thousands of dollars and shatter self confidence. We live in a society where plastic surgery can fix anything someone doesn’t like about their body. Does anyone not see a problem with this? Women need to learn that they are perfect the way they are. We should worry about feeling good in our own bodies rather than straining ourselves to impress others. The models and actresses we view as the ideal women are often represented in misleading light. Cosmopolitan and other fashion magazines frame the “perfect” woman on the front cover. We need to understand that these “perfect” women are airbrushed until there isn’t a single imperfection on their face or body. And these women that we view as perfect only make up about one percent of the world’s population.
Beauty certainly does come in all shapes and sizes. Our society and Hollywood has gotten better over the years at representing a wider range of women. From Ugly Betty to Hairspray women who aren’t blonde-haired stick-figures are beginning to show up in our media.
Another problem with society is that women are always over sexualized. Just look at the latest season of Dancing with the Stars. Pamela Anderson represents the expression “less is more.” This is a problem because women shouldn’t be expected to show their “goodies” in order to be happy or successful. A lot of times the people we idol such as the Pussycat Dolls teach us to be sexy. Sexy is good at times, but that isn’t what a woman is. She shouldn’t have to dance around on poles and chairs with no clothes on to get a man’s attention.
A new trend is women beginning to invade the science and math careers. Intelligence is becoming a valued trait by women. It is important that women be appreciated for more than just their physical appearance. I really enjoyed the play that was performed the other day in class because it told the story on the other side of the spectrum. Things that men like in women are not always a woman’s favorite part of herself. With that said, women do need to love themselves before impressing society.
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It isn’t a secret that women, especially teenage girls, face the most pressure to conform to society’s standards. From eating disorders, skin treatments, make-up clothes, we try so hard to fit the qualities that we see as perfect. And what does this do other than cost thousands of dollars and shatter self confidence. We live in a society where plastic surgery can fix anything someone doesn’t like about their body. Does anyone not see a problem with this? Women need to learn that they are perfect the way they are. We should worry about feeling good in our own bodies rather than straining ourselves to impress others. The models and actresses we view as the ideal women are often represented in misleading light. Cosmopolitan and other fashion magazines frame the “perfect” woman on the front cover. We need to understand that these “perfect” women are airbrushed until there isn’t a single imperfection on their face or body. And these women that we view as perfect only make up about one percent of the world’s population.
Beauty certainly does come in all shapes and sizes. Our society and Hollywood has gotten better over the years at representing a wider range of women. From Ugly Betty to Hairspray women who aren’t blonde-haired stick-figures are beginning to show up in our media.
Another problem with society is that women are always over sexualized. Just look at the latest season of Dancing with the Stars. Pamela Anderson represents the expression “less is more.” This is a problem because women shouldn’t be expected to show their “goodies” in order to be happy or successful. A lot of times the people we idol such as the Pussycat Dolls teach us to be sexy. Sexy is good at times, but that isn’t what a woman is. She shouldn’t have to dance around on poles and chairs with no clothes on to get a man’s attention.
A new trend is women beginning to invade the science and math careers. Intelligence is becoming a valued trait by women. It is important that women be appreciated for more than just their physical appearance. I really enjoyed the play that was performed the other day in class because it told the story on the other side of the spectrum. Things that men like in women are not always a woman’s favorite part of herself. With that said, women do need to love themselves before impressing society.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Women · 0 replies · +1 points
It isn’t a secret that women, especially teenage girls, face the most pressure to conform to society’s standards. From eating disorders, skin treatments, make-up clothes, we try so hard to fit the qualities that we see as perfect. And what does this do other than cost thousands of dollars and shatter self confidence. We live in a society where plastic surgery can fix anything someone doesn’t like about their body. Does anyone not see a problem with this? Women need to learn that they are perfect the way they are. We should worry about feeling good in our own bodies rather than straining ourselves to impress others. The models and actresses we view as the ideal women are often represented in misleading light. Cosmopolitan and other fashion magazines frame the “perfect” woman on the front cover. We need to understand that these “perfect” women are airbrushed until there isn’t a single imperfection on their face or body. And these women that we view as perfect only make up about one percent of the world’s population.
Beauty certainly does come in all shapes and sizes. Our society and Hollywood has gotten better over the years at representing a wider range of women. From Ugly Betty to Hairspray women who aren’t blonde-haired stick-figures are beginning to show up in our media.
Another problem with society is that women are always over sexualized. Just look at the latest season of Dancing with the Stars. Pamela Anderson represents the expression “less is more.” This is a problem because women shouldn’t be expected to show their “goodies” in order to be happy or successful. A lot of times the people we idol such as the Pussycat Dolls teach us to be sexy. Sexy is good at times, but that isn’t what a woman is. She shouldn’t have to dance around on poles and chairs with no clothes on to get a man’s attention.
A new trend is women beginning to invade the science and math careers. Intelligence is becoming a valued trait by women. It is important that women be appreciated for more than just their physical appearance. I really enjoyed the play that was performed the other day in class because it told the story on the other side of the spectrum. Things that men like in women are not always a woman’s favorite part of herself. With that said, women do need to love themselves before impressing society.
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16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - What about the men? · 0 replies · +1 points
I agree, everyone does want to fit in. But at what point do we do what we want and not what is expected of us? A lot of times I feel as if men are more nonchalant about societal pressures than women. Take zombie wars for example, the strange game that goes on around campus. A lot of men don’t care what others think, they do what they want. And in a way I admire this. A lot of guys do go along with society though. A lot of men wear popular clothes and have the latest technology. Like Sam said in class, everyone wants the newest technology. However I do feel as though guys have a lot less pressure on them. Girls are expected to wear make-up and do their hair. Guys not so much. Other girls notice when a chick wears the same outfit twice, guys don’t. Guys are socialized in ways other than looks. Sports is a huge example of how men are socialized. Every “typical” guy loves football, baseball, and basketball. At such a young age, boys are encouraged to join recreational sport teams. If a young boy would rather play with dolls than a soccer ball, he is considered abnormal.
Guys more than girls, I think anyways, strive to have the nicest things. Especially when it comes to cars. Every time I see a group of guys cruising around on campus, they are driving some pimped out vehicle blaring music. With that said, I think men are judged on different criterion than girls. Why doesn’t anyone try to accomplish having things that actually matter in life. Intelligence should be more important than looks and possessions. Money isn’t everything. And in order to truly fit in today’s society I feel as though money is key. Having nice clothes, cars, and technology aren’t free.
In conclusion I do think guys are socialized as much as women. Everyone is socialized from a prime age and we don’t even realize it. Guys are just socialized to be manly jocks and girls are socialized to look pretty.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - What might be the seco... · 0 replies · +1 points
I guess the second step would be for us to do as Sam has done. We need to spread the news. We need to tell our friends and family that they are contributing to slavery. This is necessary because most people aren’t aware, I wasn’t. It is crucial to tell people that even though they think slavery is wrong, they are a small reason why it still exists in other countries. Sam was right in saying that it is hard to completely give up slave-made products, especially because they are everywhere. Everyone uses a cell phone, every eats chocolate, and everyone buys cheap shirts from WalMart that some small child probably made for no money. It is almost impossible to give up all slave made products, so spreading the awareness is the next step. Maybe if most of our country’s citizens knew what they were “supporting,” we could sign a petition to turn these slaves into employees.
If more people were aware of the slavery in other countries, I do believe we could make change. We could threaten to boycott slave-made products so that slave owners are forced to pay their slaves. Instances like these are really where one person can make a difference. So it starts with us. Sam has relayed information unto us that we need to relay further. If Sam has taught us anything that would be to live our life. Part of living is trying to make the world a better place. Imagine if the world’s slavery began to decrease in our life time, we would all know that we had something to do with it. There isn’t anything much better than helping innocent people.
After reading Disposable People I do not see how anyone can sit back and watch slavery take place. In America we are so used to having opportunity at everything. I couldn’t imagine living in a place like Thailand where going to the grocery store is a risk in ending up in a brothel. I think that America has the power to create change in places that need help. We are rebuilding Iraq into a modern democracy; we are helping Haiti through their tragedy, why can’t we add a few more countries to the list? Having power shouldn’t just be an advantage in economics and warfare; we should be spreading peace throughout the world which does start with us. Tell everyone the news about slavery abroad. And let them know they can make a difference, that’s step 2.
16 years ago @ Race Relations Project - Those Dolls Say Alot A... · 0 replies · +1 points